Do what you can to make things right. Leave no stone unturned, consider what might be the best way to say “I made a mistake, what can I do? What will it take to open the door to friendship once more?” Do what you can to make things right. It’s a cold wind that blows through the darkness of night when two friends can’t find common ground.
It takes courage to admit that a wrong was done, especially if you have been the one to cause the friendship to fall apart by a careless word, a jealous heart. If the blame is yours, just speak the words. It takes courage to admit that a wrong was done and to bask in false pleasures of a victory won is to cheat yourself and your friend.
Forgiveness bestowed restores and heals; forgiveness received so often reveals the rebirth of hope, light in the night dispelling the shadows, focusing sight so that friends can walk side by side once again. Forgiveness bestowed restores and heals. Try to imagine the joy you will feel if you do what you can to make things right.
Regardless of blame, in that cold winter’s night it really won’t matter who’s wrong and who’s right. Two friends will wait for the dawn.
Do you ever get up grumpy? Early in the morning? For no apparent reason? You just feel like shoving the cat out of the way when she comes up for a pet. I don’t have a cat. Lucky for the cats of the world. I’m up by myself. 4 a.m. No one to take it out on. So, I get dressed, go down to the first floor in the apartment building, walk into the Fitness Center thinking that vigorous exercise will expel the demons, and there is a terrible grinding noise coming out of a wall-mounted TV that had been left on all night. Awful noise. And, the TV won’t respond to the remote control, and, no, I could not unplug it for reasons that are too complicated to explain. So I put on my ear buds, crank up the volume on my music machine to cover the grinding noise…loud. And off I go on the stationary bike. The volume of the music is shaking my ball cap on my head, the wire from the ear buds to the clip-on music device gets tangled, so I reach for my phone to read news headlines or play a time-filling game, and, of course, I’ve left the phone in the apartment.
This is rapidly becoming a morning to forget…and then I remembered. Sue and I spent the last week in Sedona, Arizona, a place of spectacular beauty. We hiked majestic trails, ate delicious food, shared the company of good friends, ate more delicious food, explored the community, ate more…you get it. We had a wonderful time. And here I am, the first day home, and I have a case of the 4 a.m. Grumps. And then I remembered some more, especially the songs I heard from the river along the trail. Happy sounds. Laughing sounds. The sun speckled the water with hundreds of little dancing light spots. The performance was extraordinary. It’s still beautiful, even in my memory. While I was remembering the river’s songs, still in the Fitness Center, a different song came through the tangled wires of the music device. Michael Crawford, the magnificent voice, began singing “I’ll Walk With God”. Little by little the wires untangled. Little by little Crawford’s song softened my sharp edges. The grinding sounds from the suffering TV didn’t stop, but they didn’t have control anymore. The memory and the music did.
I seem to be a person who looks for the meaning behind the moment, and that’s what I did, clutching the Sedona moments and feeling the song begin to chase the demons from my grumpy brain. The meaning behind the moment: get over the Grumps, look around, see, a tangled wire and a broken TV don’t define the day, you can actually survive and prosper without a phone in your hand, how do you want to spend the rest of the day? Grumpy or grateful. Sing the river songs and hum along with Crawford. There’s a message coming through. Do you hear?
By the time I got back to our third-floor apartment, I was ready to hug my wife and pet my cat. But Sue was still sleeping and I don’t have a cat. No, I don’t want one. Thanks, anyway. I’ll save the hug and in the meantime I will sing a song or hum a tune. Walking with God is certainly better than stumbling along with the Grumps. I hope your day is calm, peaceful, and filled with joy. If you’re walking with the Grumps, say “goodbye”, part company and be attentive to the presence that is waiting in a song, a memory, a friend’s smile, a lovely dawning, a loving relationship. There is a good day in the making. You’ll find it, or it will find you. Walk the Way. Press on.
And the Spirit spoke to me, saying: See the mountain clothed in shades of sunlight, she wears the robe of dignity, the cloak of integrity See the mountain. Become.
Watch the ant carrying the broken twig to his nesting place, He has a task to perform, others depend on him. He presses on. Never quit.
Feel the first drops of spring rain on your arm, Sky sends the gift to nourish the earth, to wash, to clean. Seek purity.
Look through the eyes and into the soul of your companion. Just there is where love originates, its origin. You are loved. Be loved. Love in return.
In the just dawning light, the Spirit spoke to me: Today you will see suffering, close to you and far away. It is yours to bear, but not to affirm. Respect the suffering. It is the reality of human life. Live beyond the suffering. Teach peace.
This morning the Spirit spoke to me, and I listened.
First thoughts of the day, gifts to capture and consider, slow mind waking into the almost light, old muscle and joints moving carefully but with intention and determined gratitude. Nuggets that become the nexus of prayer.
People who worked all night while I slept, for their vigilance. Gratitude
My friend’s smile because love has returned and filled an empty place. Joy
Imagined sounds of exploding bombs, weeping. The smell of fear. Anger
The realization of oneness connecting all living beings: people, animals, growing trees, rivers and oceans. Wonder
Hello…Good Morning…Have a great day, Nice to see you this morning. Greetings. Appreciation
Songs and poems and words used to build up, affirm, validate. Conversations that construct, not condemn. Glad welcome
My love, still sleeping, as I thought-pray into the new day. Devotion
Mystery that I cannot explain, beyond comprehension, formless form but persistent presence. Confidence
Old friend. Way Walker, joke teller and life changer. Comforter, Challenger, Embodiment of all. Yes
First thoughts in the new day as light seeps into the darkness. Slowly waking to all that is sacred. Everything
I’m not sure why I’m drawn to this flower, but I keep coming back to it and wondering about it. The pure white? The ruffled edges? Something pulls me back and invites me to sit and see. And what I see is a charming combination of colors, a blending so complimentary. A design that welcomes like open arms. It’s the center, isn’t it, that makes the white so bright. It’s the center, the golden eyed center, that captures my observing. Going to the center , sitting and seeing, wondering and waiting. It’s all in the Center, isn’t it. A simple flower invites: come to The Center.
Weep for the ones that can’t understand, for the left behind and the lost, defenseless, in fear of savage man whose actions exact such a terrible cost. Left as their masters flee to survive, condemned to forage and find their way, these beautiful creatures from whom we derive such joy and love in a different day.
Pray for the helpless who hide in the night, who die as we ravage the suffering earth. They cannot survive this terrible blight. Please, God, may their sorrowful deaths give them birth into realms of contentment and peace once more, to live without the evils of war, my faithful yellow Labrador, afraid in the dim light of smoke shadowed stars.
6:15 a.m….Choice to make…small Fitness Room with piped-in elevator music and/or talking heads on two TV screens…or…out the door into 46 degree weather for a power walk.
6:25 a.m….out the door.
6:28 a.m….listen to my heart as it moves toward high gear; up the steep incline on Innovation Park Dr…thump, thump; breathing more labored. The sound of my footsteps becomes a cadence for the uphill march.
6:33 a.m….say “good morning” to two small singing birds; accept their invitation to join them. We sing.
6:37 a.m….out of breath at the turn around point, .75 miles; welcome new light rising behind the mountains; beautiful mural as the shadowy mountains meet the crisp morning light.
6:39 a.m…now it’s downhill; yea!; such a lovely winding path lined with trees and green bushes; downhill is easier.
6:45 a.m….the wind is at my back helping me along like an old friend; I say “thank you” and listen to the wind’s song in the trees.
6:48 a.m….I am shocked to see, just in front of me, a sleek (and large) bobcat come out of the bushes on my right, cross the four-lane street…slowly, like he owns the territory…and disappear into dense foliage across the street. I follow. (I know) I want to see him closer, to take in that graceful beauty. But, it’s his territory and he disappears. What a sighting. What a gift.
6:50 a.m….approaching the last curve before my home comes into sight; the sun is just touching the mountain peak now and it broadcasts long arms across the tree tops, fingers stretching out and dropping big splashes of light everywhere.
6:55 a.m…at my front door; sweat on my back and mental pictures of a wonderful walk…a wonder walk; along the hallway I pass the Fitness Room, elevator music is competing with thundering TV sets; I smile. What a way to begin the day. This IS the day the Lord has made…and the Lord did a very fine job of it.
He said, “Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year. He is rich who owns the day, and no one owns the day who allows it to be invaded with fret and anxiety. Finish every day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and some absurdities, no doubt crept in. Forget them as soon as you can, tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely, with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This new day is too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on the yesterdays.”
A soft white sheet follows the contours of the land, smooth in places, contoured over stones and tree stumps, a photographer’s paradise. But how can I know my way? Where are the familiar streets driven so many times, the lane that carries me to the gates of my home? February’s snow blanket is beautiful, but the path, the Way, is essential. Beneath the temporary resides the permanent, the hard surface that withstands both dazzling and debris, sure to foot, any foot longing to find its way to the warmth of home. The momentary may be magical but it is a distraction. Under the snow, that’s where one finds the solid surface that withstands storms and circumstances, waiting beneath all exteriors, discovered when things temporary yield to the essential core, revealing the way that leads to the joy of arriving.
After a long day of chasing balls, taking walks, watching a squirrel through the family room window, and occasional napping, Night finally arrives and signals the Sun to rest for another day’s shining. But the very best thing about Night’s arrival is the opportunity it presents to lay your head on the leg of your best friend, snuggle down into that familiar denim, let your eyes slowly close to the evening light, and sleep.
If only the world loved me as much as my dog does. If only I had the will to love with such contented trust. Tonight before your eyes get too droopy, say a prayer of gratitude for all the animals that are fortunate to have a place of warmth and safety in which to sleep, for all the homeless and abandoned animals whose single purpose in life is survival. May the Creator of all living things, all creatures that draw breath, look with mercy and compassion on the lost and the lonely…man and animal. May there be a day when all of us…all of us…can sleep in the warmth and security of love. May it be so. Amen.
Shining Spirit 
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