I wrote recently about the delicate art of making choices, particularly choices generated by fear or disappointment. Something happens, some event, opens the door to fear or anxiety, and we have to decide how to express our thoughts and feelings. There are two basic choices: Respond or React. Either will determine how we act, speak and feel. For instance, React is usually packed with emotion; it has energy about it. Respond, on the other hand, carries with it a sense of thoughtful consideration. Responding has energy, too, but different from reacting.
When I read the New Testament, I get a sense that Jesus advocated Responding, taught his disciples how to face challenges and opportunities, and lived the principle himself. Reacting is often spur-of-the-moment, emotion loaded. Responding comes closer to the principles that Jesus taught: thoughtfulness, reason, justice, compassion; the list goes on. The Apostle Paul carried the same thought to all the churches under his supervision. You can hear it in his letter to the various congregations.
Just yesterday I got an email that led me back to personal choices, the way we live, and what we do when things don’t go our way. The writer said we can “throw our hands up in the air,” he called it Reacting. Or, we can “roll up our sleeves,” the second option, Responding. Reacting might be the initial reaction to a bad situation, but it’s Responding that makes a difference. “Throw your hands up in the air” or “roll up your sleeves”, think, reason, make a plan, make a difference.
So when disappointment knocks on your door, remember you have a choice: Slam the door in his face, scream and shout, throw your hands up in the air. Or, roll up your sleeves and make a difference.
It’s up to you. Your choice.
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